How To Date Someone With Sexually Transmitted Infection (STI)4 Comments

By gossipmama
Posted on 08 Dec 2013 at 1:08pm

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The title alone may draw you back but if the truth be told, some of us are currently dating men with sexually transmitted infection (STI) with or without knowing it. I have known enough to realize that it is not just irresponsible, reckless, ignorant men who end up with STI, we can be victims of this today even when we take the necessary precautions.

This is because a lot of these infections may be passed even when there is an available condom. To compound it all, they may not show symptoms for a while. It is very possible that in this life you will fall in love with, date, or end up getting married to man with an STI like herpes or HIV. Do not worry; I have tips to take care of it for you.

Appreciate Him For Being Sincere

A lot of partners may never tell us that they are infected and for the partners who are bold to say it all, thank them for coming out.

Some men find it too embarrassing or even feel that it is nothing when it comes to talking about their status as carriers of STI. It will not be fair if he doesn’t tell you and if he is able to tell you, it shows a lot of moral integrity on your partner’s part for caring enough about your health to put his ego aside and tell you he has an STI.

Tell Him It Is Not A Death Warrant

It may be too late to run from him when you realize that he has STI. What do you do? It is so simple; let him know he is not given a death warrant. You should not put blames on him or flog him unnecessarily with words. It may drive him nuts or at worse keep him away from you especially if you are married to him.

You Should Prepare To Initiate Love Making

I am not talking about safe sex now; I will come to it soon.  You should be the one to initiate love making often because he may just be insecure when it comes to this act. He should feel secured that you are comfortable with intimacy before he can put his mind in it on it.

Don’t Assume You Won’t Catch It

You are not a super woman, which means you can catch STI. Do not assume you would not get infected if you are not safe with your man. You should be realistic to ask yourself questions on the best options to keep safe with your man. This is what brings us to the next tip, talking to a doctor.

Talk To A Doctor

The internet is wonderful but it is not what you need for cure. You need to talk to the doctor (both of you). This is what you should do with him and get yourself safe from getting infected. You should not try self medication even if you know how what to do for him by giving prescriptions (except if you are a medical personnel). You should take your man to the hospital as soon as possible. This is the safest thing you can do to stay away from STI and save your man from further complications such getting resistant to drugs.

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