Young professionals often spend more time at the office than at home. As a result, there are a lot of single men and women who don’t have the time to meet new people. Naturally, they seek their potential partners within their surrounding environment-in the office.
Single people feel that work is a natural place to meet new people. After all, you spend at least 40 hours a week there, with individuals of similar backgrounds and interests. Relationships with co-workers can be especially tempting because hard work doesn’t leave much time for socializing.
Always remember; while inter-office dating is not necessarily illegal, many companies have policies against it. The tricky part regarding such policies is what defines dating.
Most companies encourage friendships, so where’s the line between friendship and dating? If you start dating someone in the office, who can you tell? Should you try to keep it a secret? What if someone finds out? Would it have been better if you had been honest with your co-workers from the get-go?
These are the questions that will be lingering in your mind. There are many issues both positive and negative to consider before engaging in office romances. One of the positive aspects is time efficiency, since you no longer need to search for a significant other in the evening. Why look around for potential dates when you have an office full of beautiful women? You save both time and money. (more…)
It may sound ridiculous to be told that you are unhappy in life because you have decided to be so. No matter how unthinkable this sounds, that is the reality of life.
Life has its own problems and accidents which we do not have any control over. The results of these events can be exceptionally depressing and will dwell with us for as long as well allow it.
What we cannot control are the uncertain happenings of life-be it positive or negative. However, we have the ability to determine how long the aftermath dwells and sadden our entire existence.
Your happiness in life is entrusted into your own hands. People will behave as they prefer towards you. People and things will continue to disappoint you. The pains of your struggles together with the actions and omissions of others will pierce deep into your heart, but that is as far as it can get.
For these things to undermine your total existence and shadow your happiness, you have to allow them to take over your strength and time.
A happy person in life is the individual who is able to control how long he allows the misfortunes of life to live with him. Anytime such a person is hit by the storm of pain and sorrow, he bounces back quickly to look for the little opportunities scattered in close proximity by the storm.
Not far from every catastrophe lies an opportunity. It takes only the unfettered spirit to go searching for these real opportunities. (more…)
I believe no one goes into a relationship with the intention of it ending up sour; if we know relationships are liable to break we wont indulge ourselves in them.
People have different choices and preferences when it comes to giving someone an opportunity to be a part of their life. Breakups are normally the last thing on the minds of lovers but it’s still inevitable due to some reasons (some listed below).
It is ironic that we can easily become jealous of our closest friends. Jealousy often occurs when there is a feeling of separation and competition. We need to learn to be happy at the success of others; it only when we can feel a sense of oneness with others achievements that jealousy will remain far away.
Also, we need to trust our partners - a suspicious mind is very poisonous. It is better to be trusting rather always suspecting infidelity or disloyalty.
Others will be rightly discomforted if we mistrust them. If our partner lets us down, it is not our fault. But, if we suspect, because of our own insecurity, we are bound to create serious problems in our own relationships.
There is a big difference between real love and emotional attachment. When we have emotional attachment to someone, we need their attention and presence. When we have excessive attachment to others, we can easily become jealous and demanding.
Often attachment occurs out of a sense of insecurity; if this is the case we need to develop self belief and inner confidence, we can’t just rely on other people to provide that. Strong relationships need a certain detachment; we need to be able to accept others for what they are, rather than expecting them to give us all their attention.
Even the closest relationships need to value the individual freedom of others. Problems will inevitably occur when we seek to dominate others. Often this takes the form of expectation. We want our son to become a certain person; we want our wife to live in a certain way. (more…)
One thing we will all agree on is that, life is difficult. The difficulties of life breed several problems. However, the difficulties of life are not what makes like thorny, rather trying to avoid these difficulties.
So life is difficult but it is not so difficult, what makes it so difficult is our attempts to avoid the difficulties.
Instead of embracing the difficulties of life and working hard to overcome them, we make like extremely difficulty by trying to avoid the difficulties. (more…)
Sometimes it takes more than a hot body and new outfit to get a man to notice you. If he’s none the wiser to your affections, try one of these head-turning techniques.
1. Dream team If he’s a sports fan a bit of research into his favourite team will not go unnoticed. The next time he watches them play, keep an eye out for reports and news stories about the game. That way, you’ll not only have conversation starters when you meet up, but he’ll begin to think you’re the perfect match too. 2. Tough love Show you care by encouraging the object of your affections to do what’s good for him. By serving as his conscience you will demonstrate you have his interests at heart. So, make sure he phones his mum when he said he would, keep him supplied with fruit and vegetables and badger him to apply for that promotion. Get this right and he’ll realise how much you’re worth.
3. Opposites attract It’s a myth that men want someone to share their views. In fact the opposite is often true. Suitors with the cheek to contradict them are much more likely to pique their interest. So, find out what his opinions are and brush up on the counter-arguments. Start a debate and sparks will fly!
4. Hands on approach There’s nothing like a bit of physical intimacy to make a man think thoughts of amore. So – with this in mind – take some evening classes in massage techniques. Then when he comes back from five-a-side with a limp, offer to lay on your healing hands. It’s only because you’re an expert, of course! (more…)
The way you dress for a first date says a lot about who you are and provides some important visual clues to your partner. When it comes to a first date you may not really want to divulge the closet hippy or femme fatale lurking within. Don’t wear clothes that are very revealing or expose too much of your body.
If you do wear a skirt it should reach your knees at least and tops or shirts should never reveal a bra-line or too much cleavage. (Leave that for when you get to know each other a little better).
How you choose to dress should show your date you respect him enough to make a good impression. It can also make you feel a lot more confident and relaxed on your first day or night out with the object of your affection.
The outfit, shoes and accessories you choose to wear should be chosen with care and attention to detail and should indicate that you have made a special effort for your date. Don’t overdress in an effort to make an impression. A little black number isn’t famous for its over-the-top detail after all (more…)
‘Life is difficult’ and it is the same for everyone. I hear a lot of people unconsciously saying-, their lives are difficult. I mostly reply by saying; who said it was going to be easy?
The difficulty of life is embedded in its lousy and uncertain nature. Beneath the difficulty of life which we mostly complain about lies the most precious gift of muscles building.
The journey to overcome life’s difficulties makes us stronger and enables us to build priceless skills which we need to establish the purpose of our existence.
The beauty and wonders of our existence are all buried in the difficulty of life. For us to be able to find the true purpose of our existence, build fathomless skills and perfectly grow our inner beings and muscles, we must fight the difficulties of life. That is the only way we would be able to develop ourselves and achieve greatness.
What is greatness if it is achieved without difficulty or hard work? Achieving greatness is only possible because life is difficult.
The difficulties we go through in life to achieve greatness are what make it worthy and enviable. After all, who will consider something great or will envy it if it could be obtain without any effort? Do you envy your friend who has failed? (more…)
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