Weekly Forecaster: The Meet and Greet!35 Comments

By SassyChic
Posted on 02 Dec 2010 at 10:14am

So you’ve had a handful of successful dates, sparks are flying in every direction and so far he’s being the prince charming you’ve always dreamed about (unless he’s good at hiding himself, or your ignoring/not reading the signs). By this time there’s no way he hasn’t displayed questionable habits like the dodgy late night call or being out with the boys most weekends.

Well news flash ladies we have bad habits that he is watching too, if he hasn’t pointed them out it’s one of two things, he either doesn’t care enough to say it and has no plans to continue a long term relationship OR he likes you that much he overlooks the minor things that we women might think is the end of the world were it a man doing it. What I’m saying here is, you need to decide the same thing! Are these habits and hints that he’s dropping detrimental or just things that can be worked on (wink wink).

This week I’m talking about the meeting and greeting of friends. If a guy you’ve recently started seeing is hinting for you to meet his friends or family we all know it’s generally a good sign. Not only does it signal the possibility of his commitment towards you it also means you get a chance to see him in a different light. When you meet a guy it really is just you and him in the beginning so you haven’t really had a chance to see him in all his colourful characters! Ever met a guy who is all confidence and he gets around a group of people then turns into a mouse or the guy that forgets or even there? So meeting with him and his friends is really the best and quickest way to see if you can fit nicely into each others lives…why?

The fact is we tend to surround ourselves with people that have a majority of similarities to ourselves. According to relationship expert’s it’s just how it is and it happens naturally. This is why we naturally gravitate or move away towards certain people. With this in mind when you meet his friends if they also feel like your friends then the chances are your relationship with your new guy has great potential. After all if you can feel like you have an amazing friendship with a guy you just met then you might be onto a winner.

An early meet a greet with him also shows that his friends play an important part in his life. A man who likes to involve his friends in his dating is a social person and it’s likely he’ll want to include them in your relationship say relationship experts. How much involvement depends on what you can handle or you feel might cause issues within your relationship, got to get the balance right.

Forecaster Question – What Types Of Sports Are You Into?

Apparently solo sports such as swimming or running indicate a loner who savours his independence. Football and rugby fans are competitive and likely to surround themselves with people. Unsporty types tend to be sensitive and thinkers!

See you next week for more forecaster tips!

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  • Adjoa Nbaaso)

    Well I kinda love basketball and I soo love this article.Makes a lot of sense.Thanks sassy!

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    maame Reply:

    Umm you really do? SOCCER ALL THE WAYY GURL! 

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    Adjoa Nbaaso) Reply:

    Yes oo name, but I even dont get to play.You know why I love it, cuz it exercises your legs and makes you tall.Mehnn, have you really paid much attention to those guys who play bb, dont you love their height.Ok, wouldn’t go far.our own kobe bryants is an example.

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    maame Reply:

    Oh yeahh name that is soo true! Then ohh well i guess i will start playing some B ball. 
    and yeah they are so tall. i just wonder why they get that tall. I’m gonna start playing it then cause am only 5’4 and i need to get taller you know. But the heels help sometimes lol.

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    marian Reply:

    can u play as well?

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    maame Reply:

    UMM YEAH I PLAY IT SOMETIMES BUT I NEVER GET TALL LOL

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    Adjoa Nbaaso) Reply:

    Marian, its not a big deal to learn how to play bb.U just go to the baskeball court with your ball, pretend dribbling as if you know how to play and then some “nigga” will walk by and go like “u wanna play” and then you go like “sure wanna improve”.There you go, he can teach you fast.

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    maame Reply:

    I dont have much similarity with my friends though

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    marian Reply:

    how do intend to increase ur height then? lol

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    maame Reply:

    BY playing it.. 

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    Adjoa Nbaaso) Reply:

    Oh maame, you go gal, it will really help with the height if you want it.You know how it makes toy stretch your legs anytime you play and at the same time makes you loose a lil weight?yea , that makes you tall cuz you always stretching.

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    Adjoa Nbaaso) Reply:

    My mistake not “toy” but “you”.Waz watching a movie whiles typing.Jackie’s movie to be precise.

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    maame Reply:

    oh yeah that’s true.

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  • maame

    I really like how when you comment a lot on this site, it says “Slow down, you are commenting too fast” lol is soo funny!

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    Adjoa Nbaaso) Reply:

    Ehh, maame have you forgtten you are the quenn here?

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    maame Reply:

    lol ummm hahaha. :)

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    marian Reply:

    I have a blog too and wish u could visit there n chat like this. I mean maame, Adwoa, saassychic herself and myself. lol

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    marian Reply:

    Yeesssooo my sis. say that again.

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    marian Reply:

    If maame slows down, we will all slow down. Won’t we adwoa?

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    Adjoa Nbaaso) Reply:

    You right Marian, but it goes to you both.You guys are moving so fast like the new china train as someone said.You two better slow down.Hope y’all r kool?

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    marian Reply:

    By commenting like this one, u just added to ur no of comments.lol yet u r complaining.

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    maame Reply:

    and really you do? you have a blog> then you should hit us up my sister. :D

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    marian Reply:

    I know u will love to visit the site. Thanks girls. http://mayaexclusive.blogspot.com/

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    Adjoa Nbaaso) Reply:

    Yea Marian you really ve a blog?hook us up.

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    marian Reply:

    yea but now trying to develop it. It hasn’t started making money yet. lol

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    marian Reply:

    But i can still hook u guys up though. I believe we will togther build it like we r doing now.lol

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  • maame

    Hahahaha nahh am good. I already won my shoe and my purse so yeah am good. The next one is for you and adjoa :)

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    Adjoa Nbaaso) Reply:

    Amen oooo..I receive it….Maame dis xmas di33 , i wonder how gorgeous ur feet would look.Am sure u would even attend an uninvited party..lol

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    maame Reply:

    LOL yES OO MY SISTER. I will be rocking in them lol and i saw in that nasty movie “adults only” a girl wearing one.

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    marian Reply:

    oooh my sister. Don’t worry cos urs is unique.

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    marian Reply:

    Adwoa u r funny. an uninvited party dea, dey go beat am oo. Pls give good advice. heheehe

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    maame Reply:

    she is real; funny lol

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    maame Reply:

    ohh yeah mari mine is definetly unique.

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    marian Reply:

    mehure so. M’agye na m’asom nso.

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    maame Reply:

    lol amen oo!

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