Your Weekly Love Forecaster: First Date – Second Encounter!19 Comments

By SassyChic
Posted on 17 Nov 2010 at 9:43pm

Continuing from last week where we talked about that first meeting with a dreamy guy, whether it is you, the daring woman who has asked the man out or you’ve been talked into a dinner date…here is the second encounter’s love forecaster.

The First Date:

Relationship expert Corrine Sweet explains to us that relationship patterns are set from date number one (no pressure ladies). So the obvious things like turning up late or who ends up paying the bill could end up developing into long term problems or habits.

This is fine if such things don’t bother you but if they do let it be known from day one or 10 minutes late will one day be 4 hours late.

Of course it could be a one off thing but just be aware of it. If on a first date you meet a man for example who it cute, handsome, fine, amazing, delicious ( all of the above ) don’t be blind sided by this or you won’t notice when he is displaying dodgy habits informing you unconsciously of what he can offer you in a long term relationship.

Watch out for the ones that want to control everything. It may not seem like a big deal on the first date, especially if your too busy stirring into his gorgeous eyes over a glass of wine (that he chose).

So far, he’s chosen the time and place, he orders for you, pays for you…sounds good so far right? Six months down the line he will be choosing who you see and when, where you go and it will drive you mad.

It’s not so bad if you have the balls to leave because you haven’t fallen hard for him BUT if you have you may not leave and you may find yourself trapped in a controlling miserable relationship, so like I’ve been saying read the signs and be vocal about what you are about the things you like and what you want.

This allows a compromise to be reached. It’s not about being a diva or being over the top but he will either respect you for voicing your choices or he’ll run a mile. If he chooses the second option? Trust me you have made a very lucky escape, even if you are gutted it didn’t work out at the time.

Another thing I’ve read and which sounds strange but could be true, the way a man eats reveals a lot about what your date is like in bed. ‘if he is too picky about food he will probably be a fussy and perfectionist lover and he expects nothing less from you  ( not saying this is a bad thing ).

It’s all about knowing if that’s the kind of thing your into. Also one more thing to watch out for that is more obvious is to watch out for the way he treats for example the waiter in a restaurant.

A lack of respect and rudeness is likely to mean he considers himself of high status and most people are beneath him, you might brush it off but you will surely remember it when he turns around and uses the same tone of voice and lack of respect with you.

Forecaster Question: Do you like to go out on nights out often?

A full on party boy is fun but likely to be an attention-seeker who’ll tend to neglect your needs for his own. It’s flattering that Mr stay-at-one wants to spend all his time with you, but don’t expect huge amounts of spontaneity! ( I can vouch for that last one).

Log on next Wednesday for the ‘Third Encounter’ The Second Date!

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  • maame

    lol sassy chic you did bring the continuation.. good job :)

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    islander Reply:

    turned away for two minutes……!! lols

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    islander Reply:

    mmmmmmmhh!

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    maame Reply:

    lol you givin me a hard time :p

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    sassychic Reply:

    Ahh I aim to plz! Will post part 3 tomorrow! Thanks maame.

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    marian Reply:

    pls do cos i need to know more.It is as if u r talking directly to me.am entangled in it already too.

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    marian Reply:

    Am still waiting for the third part plz.Thanks

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  • Adjoa Nbaaso)

    Ehh, I read the picky part like twice, then am going to be a diet watcher soon….lol

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    marian Reply:

    That is funny.lol

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    Adjoa Nbaaso) Reply:

    I know right…lol

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  • marian

    Those harsh words n the making of one feeling so inferior,hmmm my sisters.am in it oo.It is not easy atall.God help me.

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    maame Reply:

    lol loosing weight is easy but the sad part is dat you can gain it so fast!

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    marian Reply:

    Thats the truth dear friend.

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    marian Reply:

    I was slim for sometime n decided i needed to increase a bit in weight. I started eating cakes, choclates,candy bars etc.,and guess what i became big n now started to decrease again.Its not easy atall!

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    maame Reply:

    yeahhh hunnie i know,,, is not easy especially if you have kids.. 

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    Adjoa Nbaaso) Reply:

    Dont worry, there is time for everything.Perhaps you can listen to your ipod or radio so you wouldnt even pay attention to him.Please try and endure cuz it will end soon.God sees what you going tru.

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    marian Reply:

    I know . Thanks girl.

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  • marian

    can say that again.it will be well.

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    maame Reply:

    lol you need to chill out girl.. :)

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